Well first of: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=How+to+learn+c%2B%2B
I recommend these books:
C++ Primer 5th Edition
C++ The Programming Language 3rd Edition By Bjarne Stroustrup
This website also has a good "Get Started" tutorial -> http://cplusplus.com/doc/tutorial/
I recommend that you download the PDF and atleast skim through the pages.
There's also plenty of tutorials on Youtube on how to get started.