@BHXSpecter You seems to put one-zero logic in my opinion. I put an extra time, to carefully add "
From what i experienced" and "
for me" which can be also read "from my point of view" since i anticipated such discussion direction somewhat. "
So if a person goes out of their way saying they are something it means they most likely aren't"- BHXSpecter. This is over-interpretation. If you work as software developer, then saying you are one is normal. Hacker (maybe except some official white-hats), nerd, geek are not jobs or titles gained from universities (Faculty of Hacking :D), but cultural synonyms. Now that these words became mainstream they mean nothing like the did for me in the past.
When i grew up nerd was a kid who was study very hard to be always the best, either because of personal reasons or parents - always wanting to get the highest score on test, always having hand in the air to answer the teacher - and all that at the cost of discarding playing with other kids who typically didn't accept such individuals and called him 'nerd'. Geek is very symiliar, but instead of study, geek was a person intersted in something else to such point that all else didn't matter. And when you talked to such kid he could brag about his interest for hours since he was such passionate. And a hacker? I grew up in 90s and a 'hacker' was a mythical being who was robing the banks by using phone boots, sink the oil tankers, crash satelites and ride the binary unicorn. And all that was in TV news!
I lived in such times and these words have such meaning for me. The problem is that, these dont have such meaning anymore (mostly because of overuse in stupid comedies). Because of times change casual-bully-nerd-geek, etc. mixed with each other (easier acces to information like the internet) and there is no such distinction like back in the days. Nerd - who sacraficed all to be the best - now is just 'cool' word to call yourself. Even if you aren't one in terms of what i wrote before. (
http://www.forbes.com/sites/victorhwang/2013/06/03/a-huge-global-epidemic-fake-nerds/ etc). The Geek. If you are extremely passionate about something you DIG in. Always looking for more information, always know the most. Last time when i asked dude with "geek" on his t-shirt, he couldn't answer what he is 'geek' about. With open media today, these are just fashioned titles (at least for me - i think you call it conflict of ages. And with such vast amount of information this will grow faster :)).
The hackers? When i was a kid, i digged in because i didnt know the answer to such questions: what hackers do? how does they do it? All people i found on the need either used some ready tools or known bugs - and all of them called themself 'hackers'. From social point of view, they propably are. But now for me. Who find these bugs? Who write these tools? How the hell do you crack a game? Except the last question, I will never know the truth - and honestly - i dont want to, because i like image i have right now :).
ps. oftopic for these who dont know this legend :D
http://www.cs.utah.edu/~elb/folklore/mel.html
ps2. thats the biggest post in my life